More Free Time - a New Year’s Resolution

As the calendar turns to a new year, many of us set resolutions centered around personal growth, health, and relationships. One of the most common—and meaningful—goals is the desire to spend more time doing the things that bring us joy, relaxation, and fulfillment. Yet, despite our best intentions, life’s responsibilities often crowd out the activities we care about most.
If you’ve made a resolution to spend more time doing what you really want to do in 2025, you're not alone. But how do you actually make this happen? It’s easier than you think if you approach the task with a plan. Here are five actionable tips to help you prioritize your passions and carve out more time for the things that matter most:

1. Identify What Truly Matters to You


Before you can start spending more time on what you want, it’s important to clearly define what those things are. Take some time at the start of the year to reflect on what genuinely brings you joy and fulfillment. Is it pursuing a hobby you’ve put on the back burner, spending more time with loved ones, exercising, or just having more time to relax and recharge?
Writing down your priorities can help you gain clarity and prevent distractions. When you have a clear list of your goals—whether it's learning a new instrument, exploring new places, or simply reading more books—it will be easier to prioritize your time and make decisions that align with what you truly value.

2. Set Realistic and Specific Goals


While it’s tempting to make sweeping, ambitious resolutions (like “I’ll spend more time doing what I want!”), such goals can often feel overwhelming or too vague to act on. The key is to break your goal into specific, manageable steps.
For example, instead of saying “I’ll travel more this year,” you could say, “I’ll take one weekend trip every three months” or “I’ll plan one international vacation by June.” By setting concrete, achievable milestones, you're not just thinking about what you want to do—you're creating a tangible path forward.

3. Schedule “Me Time” Like Any Other Appointment


One of the easiest ways to ensure you spend more time on the things you love is by treating them like important appointments. Just as you schedule meetings, deadlines, and social events, add time for yourself into your calendar.
It’s easy to say, “I’ll get to my hobby later,” or “I’ll relax once I’m caught up on work.” But without setting aside intentional time for it, life will always seem to get in the way. Block off time for self-care, personal projects, or activities you love, and treat that time as non-negotiable.

4. Learn to Say No (and Let Go of Guilt)


One of the most important steps in accomplishing your resolution is learning how to say no to commitments that don't align with your goals. This might mean turning down extra work or social invitations that you feel obligated to accept but don’t actually contribute to your happiness.
At first, this can feel uncomfortable, especially if you have a tendency to please others. But remember: Saying no to things that drain your energy or don’t serve you is an act of self-care and personal growth. By creating space in your life, you’ll have more time for the activities and people that bring you joy.

5. Embrace Flexibility and Celebrate Progress


Life is unpredictable, and sometimes plans need to change. Maybe you’re unable to take that weekend trip because of unforeseen circumstances, or you miss a week of your creative hobby due to work pressure. It’s okay. The key is not to let these setbacks derail your overall goal.
Celebrate the small wins along the way. Did you make time for your passion project once a week for a month? Great! Did you get to spend an extra hour reading each evening for a week? Awesome! Progress is progress, even if it’s not perfect. Embrace the journey, be kind to yourself, and adjust when needed.

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Final Thoughts
Spending more time doing what you want is about intentionally creating space in your life for joy, fulfillment, and relaxation. By setting clear priorities, managing your time wisely, and learning to say no when necessary, you can make 2025 the year you reclaim your time and focus on the things that bring you happiness.
Remember, resolutions are a marathon, not a sprint. By taking small steps, staying flexible, and celebrating each achievement, you'll be well on your way to making your New Year’s resolution a lasting reality.


What’s something you’ve been wanting to make time for? Let us know how you plan to prioritize it this year!